So the last month has been healing from knee surgery and rehab. It’s been God awful and so hard. It’s been humbling and brought me to new lows of pain and depression. It’s shown me how few people stick around when you cannot pour into them all of the time.
It brought out new issues to sort through. It made me realize all I seem to bring into my life in people and relationships are projects. I’m over it. I’m tired of helping heal people for them to move on and take all the pieces of me I’ve put back together and shatter them again. There is always beauty in the breaks and repairs but it is overwhelming and exhausting. I need a break of my own. So for now, no more projects.
I am focusing on healing myself for now. I miss being happy by default. I miss being able to do what I want when I want. So I’m the project and focus. New work, new healing, new perspective. If you can’t add to my life without taking all the energy you want and not pouring some back into me, you can keep going. I love helping heal others. I love sending energy and being an ear. But for now, i need to heal myself. Call it selfish, I’m ok with that. Call it mean, I don’t care. I’m calling it me time and I deserve it for my own life and happiness.